TERTULIA - Exclusivity in Love
Is love free? Does it need to be exclusive? Or is exclusivity just one of many possible paths?
In this open and informal discussion, we invite you to explore with us the multiple ways of experiencing affection, intimacy and commitment. We will talk about monogamy, ethical non-monogamy, open relationships, and the values (or myths) that shape our ideas of love, jealousy, fidelity and freedom.
In a safe and non-judgmental space, we seek to reflect together on the structures we have inherited and those we want (or don't want) to build. Bring your questions, experiences or simple curiosity — diversity of perspectives is welcome!
Some questions to heat up the debate:
- Is monogamy a free choice or a culturally imposed norm?
- Jealousy: a sign of love, insecurity or social construction?
- Can there be commitment without exclusivity?
- What are the differences between ethical non-monogamy and betrayal?
- Who does the traditional relationship model serve? And who does it exclude?
- How can we communicate limits and desires honestly in relationships?
- Is it possible to have multiple relationships without emotional hierarchies?
- How can a non-monogamous relationship function in a healthy way, if it exists?
- What do monogamous and non-monogamous relationships have in common? Bridging the gap.